Chantal provides presenting/training services as well as individual consultation.

Individual consultation services are provided in person or on-line in the following areas: adolescence; transition planning; communication; diversity training; divorce / child custody / expert witness.

Chantal has presented in over 6 countries, 47 cities and 19 states and has provided virtual trainings on-line.

 Chantal spoke openly and honestly about the obstacles. Her stories were real and entertaining, and she followed up every topic with a solution. We had only positive feedback from those in attendance. I have been to lots of conferences and worked with lots of speakers and Chantal is really right up there with the best!! Thank you Chantal for your leadership and inspiration. – Shelley Hubal, OPWDD Supervisor/Training Coordinator, The Family Resource Network Inc.

Chantal was a terrific Keynote Speaker and a Breakout Speaker at our Annual Convention.  We had excellent evaluations from the audience and would bring her back without question. Top qualities: Great Results, Expert, Creative – Janet Donahue, Director of Development at The Arc of Illinois

Here are the different presentations Chantal can deliver in person or on-line:

Keynotes

Love, Sex, God, & Autism

70-minute multimedia storytelling event appropriate for Keynotes, Fundraisers and Special Events. Can be adapted to your events needs: shortened for end-of-year-dinners or accompanied by workshops with learning objectives.

LSGA1 Love Sex logo April Mitchell final webMany have asked Chantal Sicile-Kira , “How did Jeremy become the person he is today? We want to hear your story!” So here it is! Love, Sex, God & Autism, is  a universal and inspirational story about resiliency and adapting to change. In her 70-minute storytelling event, Chantal humorously and lovingly wrestles with the trials and tribulations of her family’s successful attempt to change the prognosis given to her child – life in an institution.  It’s the hysterical and heartbreaking personal account of a young man’s quest for love, and a family’s search for normalcy – or at least inclusion!  Along the way,  Chantal explores how her upbringing  provided her with the grit and  resiliency  she would need as Jeremy’s mother. Life-changing gifts are discovered, affirming the family’s belief that being “not like the others” means being different, but not less.

Living with Autism:  Our Challenges, Our Strengths, Our Dreams

With advice and reflections from adults on the autism spectrum, as well as her personal experience as an advocate and parent of a young adult with an ASD,  the challenges, strengths, and dreams  of those  living with autism will be discussed.  Challenge areas such as sensory processing,  communication, social relationships  and safety  will be explained. How building on a person’s strength or special interest can create community connections and employment opportunities will be explored.  Finally, the dreams and hopes of those with autism and their families will be discussed, providing a greater understanding  of neighbors who may be different…not less.

Why Me? Things I Wish I’d Known Sooner

In this dynamic and humorous keynote, Chantal shares lessons learned on resilience and re-invention during times of change. This positive and empowering presentation will encourage the audience to embrace change as an opportunity for new growth. Based on the journey she has traveled since her son, Jeremy, was born 24 years ago and diagnosed mentally retarded and severely autistic, Chantal shares lessons learned about adapting to change. Eventually, Jeremy graduated from high school, attended college, and is currently a Youth Representative to the United Nations for the Autism Research Institute.

A Full Life with Autism: Creating a Life Worth Living

The transition out of school district services to adult services is a challenge for both the young adults and the parents. This presentation based on Chantal and Jeremy Sicile-Kira’s book, A Full Life with Autism, explains how parents, early intervention specialists, educators, and adult support staff can best prepare themselves and their young adult for this important life change. Topics discussed include how to assist the young adult in creating a self-determined life based on their abilities, goals and interests, and how to create a circle of supports to help the person reach his or her goals.

Finding Our Way Together: Creating Positive Outcomes

An old Swahili proverb, “A boat doesn’t go forward if each one is rowing their own way” aptly describes the philosophy of collaboration and common vision that infuses this keynote presentation. Chantal’s inspiring message reminds us that although we may each be unique, by focusing on our similarities instead of our differences, together we can create the outcome that we all envision. Drawing from her personal and professional experiences, Chantal shares insights and hard-won wisdom on how different professionals (including parents) with differing viewpoints can come together as a team to move towards a common goal.

Keynotes with Chantal and her son, Jeremy

A Full Life with Autism: A Mother-Son Journey About Transitioning to Adulthood

This is a co-presentation by Chantal and her son, Jeremy. They explain each from their own perspective why the transition out of school district services is difficult and how parents can best prepare themselves and their young adult for this life change. They share information they learned while researching to write A Full Life With Autism (Macmillan 2012). Practical advice includes how to assist the young adult in creating a self-determined life; how to create a circle of supports to help the person reach his/her goals over a lifetime. Jeremy uses powerpoint with voice output technology for his portion of the presentation.

“Thank You for Giving Me a Voice”

This is a presentation by Jeremy Sicile-Kira. Jeremy was diagnosed as mentally retarded and severely autistic. Yet despite his movement differences and sensory processing difficulties, he graduated from high school at age 22 with a full academic diploma and a GPA of 3.78, and gave a commencement speech using voice output technology. In this inspiring presentation, Jeremy explains how all the different therapies and education throughout his life helped him to “make sense of the world,” the first step necessary for communication. Jeremy will discuss how he learned to communicate and eventually to graduate through the use of augmentative and alternative communication both at school and at home, and how new technology such as the iPad and wireless keyboards have opened his world, allowing him to connect with others.

Concurrent Sessions (1.5- 3 hrs)

Autism Life Skills: Ten Essential Abilities Every Child Needs and Deserves to Learn

With advice and reflections from adults on the autism spectrum, as well as her personal experience as an advocate and parent of a young adult with an ASD, the following essential life skills are discussed : *Making Sense of the World * Communication * Safety * Self-Esteem * Pursuing Interests * Self-Regulation * Independence * Social Relationships * Self-Advocacy *Earning a Living. Based on Chantal’s third book, Autism Life Skills, ( Penguin) this positive and empowering “bill of rights” for every person with autism, regardless of impairment level, this session will provide hope and help — so that every child has a chance to reach his or her full potential.

More Than Just Coping: Empowerment Strategies for Parents

This motivational and practical workshop provides parents the opportunity to explore the feelings that are inherent to having a child with an autism spectrum disorder, and gives practical and positive strategies for attitude adjustment. Challenging the notion of a ‘grief cycle’ and the loss of expectations; personal beliefs about disability and today’s society’s striving for perfection; knowing what battles to pick and overcoming the fear factor; and how to develop positive relationships with service providers and school districts are areas that are all explored Chantal’s presentation leaves parents charged and empowered to move forward with their lives.

Adolescents On the Autism Spectrum

Adolescence is a difficult time for everyone, neurotypical or not, as a person transitions from being a child to a young adult. To become as independent in adulthood as possible, teenagers of all different ability levels must learn self-care, appropriate behaviors, modesty and sexuality. Areas to be covered include: explaining about puberty and changing bodies, hygiene and self-care and how to problem-solve difficulties in teaching self-care routines, the importance of modesty, and what to do about masturbation. For safety reasons and in preparation for adulthood, all teenagers need to learn about relationship boundaries, and sexuality. Ideas for preventing bullying and abuse will be discussed.

Autism Life Skills : Transitioning Teenagers to Adulthood

The transition to adulthood is a challenge, not only to the teen on the spectrum, but to the parents and educators as well. Hard-won wisdom and practical tips on how parents and professionals can prepare their students of all ability levels – and themselves – for adulthood. Focusing on the life skills needed as an adult working and living with autism (and how to teach them), will be addressed. Preparing for employment, college, and long-term living options based on a teenager’s ability and interest, as well as networking for resources will be discussed.

Preparing for College

A successful transition to college involves careful planning and preparation for the student on the autism spectrum. Needed life skills for college life, such as self advocacy to request needed accommodations will be addressed. Challenge areas such as scheduling, organizing, socializing and dating, and how to prepare and support your youth in those areas will be discussed.

Preparing for the Real World of Work

Temple Grandin says that her work is what gives meaning to her life. Not all individuals on the spectrum are as talented as Temple, but with proper skill-training and preparation, many can have productive employment or careers. This session addresses all different ability levels on the spectrum. An overview of the different types of employment structures currently available, (including self-employment) in the community will be given, as well as a description of 10 top attributes employers are looking for in a potential employee.

Full Day Seminars (6 hours)

Adolescents and the Transition to Adult Life

Adolescence is a time of positive growth as well as challenges. This session will provide practical strategies for teaching teenagers of all ability levels the necessary life skills of self-care, self-regulation, self-advocacy, and self-esteem. What and how to explain about puberty, relationship boundaries and sexuality will be discussed, as will common adolescent concerns such as bullying and masturbation. The Individualized Transition Plan will be covered. Areas to be emphasized include: focusing on the student’s strengths, developing work or career skills, preparing for college, the different types of employment structures (including self-employment) as well as employer needs and the use of mentors.